The first book on my son’s reading list this year was Pride & Prejudice. He was dreading it.
But I still remember a Sunday School teacher in Texas saying that is one of his favorite books. Plus, one of our best friends wrote a book about Jane Austen. The first chapter starts with something like, “Real Men Read Jane Austen”. So, I figured he could handle it.
Well, he made it half-way through the book!
I guess that’s good, considering the murmuring around our house about the book.
Even though he didn’t finish the book, we had some great discussions. Last night he told us he got to the part where Darcy asks Elizabeth to marry him the first time. He went on to say that Elizabeth was just disgusting. She made him so mad.
Well, I guess the book provoked emotion in my 14yo son. Maybe not the same emotion my 17yo daughter & I had, but emotion nonetheless.
He went on to say that he couldn’t stand Elizabeth and the way she talked about people. He couldn’t understand why she would say and the way she did. I guess he hit upon some real truths about girls.
I was excited he had an opinion about the book. When I talked to him about the book, he would barely discuss it with me. Last night at dinner was the most lively discussion we’ve had. That’s probably because his big sister kept quiet and let him talk about P & P for the first time.
Even if your kids don’t like a book, that’s okay. Let them talk about it and express their feelings…especially if they are different from yours!
Kerry
ps. What book will you be reading this week? Will your kids have an opinion about it?
pps. I just realized my non-reading son really does have opinions about our readings. Just this morning, he stopped our read-aloud and asked why we had to read about geeks who liked school….We were reading about Louis Pasteur!
Hey, at least he was listening and taking it in! Do your kids oppose your opinion? That’s good because they are interacting with the text!
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